13 Mar You’re the Real MVP
If you know me, you know what a problem this is. Imagine your song comes on and someone insists on talking through your favorite part.
That’s how I felt.
The whole movie.
Don’t worry, he won’t know that I’m telling you this.
He sensed my annoyance with him and a very healthy convo came from that moment. To me it should have been obvious, but you know, he’s a man, so maybe he needed to hear me actually say, you’re going to take an interest in things important to me and I’m going to do the same for you.
So far, so good.
He finally saw Love Jones. I’ve seen Syriana. I’m reading Confessions of an Economic Hit Man, and he, well, he reads my blog.
He read the entire thing. The posts I’m not so proud of, the ones that may be about other men, the ones I wrote about him—all of them. When he compliments my site or a particular post, as I do with most things, I said something to downplay it, this time mentioning how I wished my photos were better.
He said he’d help. I appreciate how my blog seems to be improving because of it (and him).
I think we have a really interesting dynamic. We can talk about any and everything, we often do, and practically nothing is off limits when it comes to jokes. Anything goes in the name of a good laugh. Because of this comfort we have with each other, his commentary as he takes my pictures, sometimes catches me off guard.
“Babe, suck in! No, I’m not trying to tell you anything, just suck in.”
“Maybe, less teeth.”
“More teeth, you look mad.”
“You have lipstick on your teeth. Like, a lot.”
“I think I see your gray hair!”
“Naomi Campbell wouldn’t show how cold she is. You can do it. Think of the pictures!”
“Your hair is doing this weird thing.”
“Aren’t we supposed to be able to tell you’re wearing over-the-knee socks? I thought you were thirst trapping? Shouldn’t we see skin?”
Ed. Note, I’m not thirst trapping. Ever.
*possible drunk man comes up as he snapping* “Yes, I tell her all the time she’s pretty. I think I may keep her. Hmm hmm.”
Ladies, meet my boyfriend. He takes all my blog photos (and says all sorts of crazy things while doing so).
He’s the real MVP.
Marsha
Posted at 10:45h, 13 MarchAww, you are too cute! Thanks for sharing. It is nice to see couples who work together and support each other.
ChanningintheCity
Posted at 10:16h, 16 MarchThank you, Marsha! I appreciate you reading 🙂
Arianna
Posted at 12:36h, 13 MarchThis is so cute! I love the relationship between yall and that clearly, you can be honest with one another (my favorite was “Naomi Campbell wouldn’t show how cold she was.”
ChanningintheCity
Posted at 10:16h, 16 MarchSometimes a little too honest but thank you, Boo!
Justine Santos
Posted at 18:54h, 13 MarchThis was super cute. My favorite part were the lipstick teeth shots. And maybe the fact that he’s taking these Outtakes for you to keep lmao.
ChanningintheCity
Posted at 10:15h, 16 MarchLOL right. Thanks Jussy 🙂
Christy
Posted at 19:09h, 13 MarchYou look like you are totally natural around each other and that’s great and he must be real special to make it on your baby blog cheers to love.
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ChanningintheCity
Posted at 10:15h, 16 MarchI hope he sees your comment about he must be real special because he made it on the blog, Christy! But he is 🙂 Thank you for reading.
K.
Posted at 22:53h, 13 MarchEverything!
Oh and that Naomi Campbell walk **beyonce voice** lol is all I could thinking looking through the pictures.
Sweet. Happy you’re happy. xx K
ChanningintheCity
Posted at 10:14h, 16 MarchThank you, K! You still need to meet him!
ChanningintheCity
Posted at 10:16h, 16 MarchHeeyyy Debbie! Thank you for reading 🙂
Margo
Posted at 11:17h, 16 MarchAhhh! Love this post! You guys are adorbs. 🙂
ChanningintheCity
Posted at 10:10h, 17 MarchThank you, Glamazon Margo!
BeeKnocks
Posted at 17:18h, 16 MarchAwww the Brooklyn Boy! How cute are yall?!
ChanningintheCity
Posted at 10:09h, 17 MarchHeheh! Thanks B!
ShesFacingFreedom
Posted at 07:58h, 19 MarchLove, Love, Love this post. I love how honest you guys are with each other. Also, I think it’s sweet that he supports you with your blog.
ChanningintheCity
Posted at 11:42h, 19 MarchThank you, Yas. I’m learning to compromise, so hopefully, I’m equally as supportive toward him.
Abryllya
Posted at 09:19h, 20 MarchThis post is cute!!!! I like the comments he makes they are hilarious! I bet your happy you have a bf that is willing to take pics of you
ChanningintheCity
Posted at 15:13h, 20 MarchThank you! And I do really appreciate that he’s willing to do it and doesn’t think it’s weird or strange.
Kelli Nicole
Posted at 11:17h, 01 JulyI am catching up on your blog and I absolutely love this post (I know I am late…Lol)…I think its always nice when people are supportive of what their spouse is doing…And the commentary is hilarious! Lol
ChanningintheCity
Posted at 15:34h, 06 JulyHeyyyy Kelli! Nice to see you. I hope you’ve been well! It is nice that he’s supportive. It feels like we’re a team.